\u00c9g hef lagt \u00e1herslu \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 okkur beri a\u00f0 s\u00fdna m\u00e1lnotkun annarra vir\u00f0ingu og umbur\u00f0arlyndi og taka tilbrig\u00f0um \u00ed m\u00e1li fagnandi \u2013 e\u00f0a a.m.k. s\u00e6tta okkur vi\u00f0 \u00feau. \u00dea\u00f0 er einl\u00e6g sannf\u00e6ring m\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 ein meginforsenda \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00edslenska lifi \u00e1fram hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnum okkar og barnab\u00f6rnum. En umbur\u00f0arlyndi\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3 takm\u00f6rk. M\u00e1lnotkun okkar m\u00e1 ekki misbj\u00f3\u00f0a f\u00f3lki e\u00f0a ni\u00f0url\u00e6gja \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 nokkurn h\u00e1tt. \u00cdslenskan \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki skili\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 notu\u00f0 til a\u00f0 mei\u00f0a f\u00f3lk.<\/p>\n
\u00deess vegna eigum vi\u00f0 ekki a\u00f0 nota um f\u00f3lk einhver or\u00f0 sem f\u00f3lki\u00f0 vill ekki a\u00f0 s\u00e9u notu\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0. \u00de\u00f3tt or\u00f0 eins og\u00a0kynvillingur<\/i>,\u00a0negri<\/i>\u00a0og \u00f6nnur sl\u00edk hafi \u00fe\u00f3tt e\u00f0lileg \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr \u2013 raunar fyrir ekki mj\u00f6g l\u00f6ngu \u2013 er svo ekki lengur. \u00de\u00f3tt f\u00f3lk \u00e1 m\u00ednum aldri s\u00e9 ali\u00f0 upp vi\u00f0 \u00feessi or\u00f0 h\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 flest \u00e1tta\u00f0 okkur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feau \u00feykja ekki lengur vi\u00f0 h\u00e6fi, og vani\u00f0 okkur af notkun \u00feeirra. \u00dea\u00f0 er e\u00f0lilegt og sj\u00e1lfsagt \u2013 og ekki svo erfitt.<\/p>\n
M\u00e1li\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur hins vegar fl\u00f3knara \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 kynju\u00f0u m\u00e1lfari \u2013 b\u00e6\u00f0i notkun karlkyns sem \u00f3marka\u00f0s (hlutlauss) kyns, og notkun or\u00f0sins\u00a0ma\u00f0ur<\/i>\u00a0og samsetninga af \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed v\u00edsun til beggja (e\u00f0a allra) kynja. \u00c9g veit a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgum konum og kynsegin f\u00f3lki finnst sl\u00edk m\u00e1lnotkun \u00fatilokandi, finnst ekki v\u00edsa\u00f0 til s\u00edn. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1 tilfinningu alvarlega en ekki v\u00edsa henni umsvifalaust \u00e1 bug.<\/span><\/p>\n
Ef m\u00e1lnotkun eins og\u00a0Allir \u00feurfa a\u00f0 fara \u00ed skimun\u00a0<\/i>e\u00f0a\u00a0M\u00f6nnum er skipa\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed s\u00f3ttkv\u00ed\u00a0<\/i>\u00ed v\u00edsun til blanda\u00f0s h\u00f3ps verkar \u00fatilokandi \u00e1 f\u00f3lk, m\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 ekki bara breyta henni? \u00dea\u00f0 er vel h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 segja\u00a0\u00d6ll \u00feurfa a\u00f0 fara \u00ed skimun\u00a0<\/i>(eins og var gert \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum n\u00fdlega) og\u00a0F\u00f3lki er skipa\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed s\u00f3ttkv\u00ed<\/i>. Er \u00feetta ekki jafn sj\u00e1lfsagt og a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 tala um\u00a0kynvillinga\u00a0<\/i>og\u00a0negra<\/i>?<\/p>\n
Kannski \u2013 og \u00fe\u00f3. \u00deetta er ekki samb\u00e6rilegt. \u00dea\u00f0 er einfalt a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra n\u00fd or\u00f0 \u2013 vi\u00f0 erum alltaf a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 meira m\u00e1l a\u00f0 venja sig \u00e1 a\u00f0 nota \u00feessi n\u00fdju or\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0 annarra sem vi\u00f0 erum v\u00f6n a\u00f0 nota, en me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum gengur \u00fea\u00f0 yfirleitt. En or\u00f0i\u00f0\u00a0ma\u00f0ur<\/i>\u00a0og samsetningar af \u00fev\u00ed er ekkert venjulegt or\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er algengasta nafnor\u00f0 m\u00e1lsins og nota\u00f0 \u00ed mj\u00f6g fj\u00f6lbreyttu samhengi. \u00dea\u00f0 er meirih\u00e1ttar breyting a\u00f0 finna gott or\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn og koma \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed almenna notkun. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki \u00fear me\u00f0 sagt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki h\u00e6gt \u2013 en \u00fea\u00f0 t\u00e6ki t\u00edma.<\/p>\n
Breyting \u00e1 hlutlausu kyni er enn sn\u00fanari. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert n\u00e1tt\u00farul\u00f6gm\u00e1l a\u00f0 karlkyni\u00f0 s\u00e9 hlutlaust, en \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 erum \u00f6ll alin upp vi\u00f0. \u00c9g skil samt vel a\u00f0 sumum finnist \u00fea\u00f0 ekki h\u00f6f\u00f0a til s\u00edn, og venji sig \u00e1 a\u00f0 nota hvorugkyn sem hlutlaust kyn \u00ed sta\u00f0inn. Vissulega er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 nefna d\u00e6mi \u00fear sem \u00feetta g\u00e6ti valdi\u00f0 misskilningi en \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki l\u00edklegt til a\u00f0 valda vandkv\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00dev\u00ed hefur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram a\u00f0 \u00feetta geti valdi\u00f0 \u00f3vissu \u00ed m\u00e1lnotkun en \u00e9g hef ekki miklar \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed heldur.<\/p>\n
En \u00feetta er ekki samb\u00e6rilegt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 nota \u00e1kve\u00f0in or\u00f0 \u2013 \u00feetta sn\u00fdst um breytingu \u00e1 m\u00e1lkerfi f\u00f3lks og m\u00e9r finnst ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00e6tlast til \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk breyti m\u00e1lkerfi s\u00ednu. A\u00f0alatri\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feessu er umbur\u00f0arlyndi og vir\u00f0ing fyrir \u00f6\u00f0ru f\u00f3lki og m\u00e1lnotkun \u00feess. \u00deau sem vilja hafna karlkyni sem hlutlausu kyni \u00feurfa a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum flest alin upp vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 karlkyni\u00f0 hafi \u00feetta hlutverk, og \u00feau sem vilja halda \u00ed karlkyni\u00f0 sem hlutlaust kyn \u00feurfa a\u00f0 s\u00fdna \u00fev\u00ed skilning a\u00f0 \u00fdmsum finnst karlkyni\u00f0 eing\u00f6ngu v\u00edsa til karlmanna og \u00fear me\u00f0 vera \u00fatilokandi.<\/p>\n
En \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1 ekki gerast a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk ver\u00f0i flokka\u00f0 eftir m\u00e1lnotkun hva\u00f0 \u00feetta var\u00f0ar og anna\u00f0 hvort tilbrig\u00f0i\u00f0 ver\u00f0i tali\u00f0 villa e\u00f0a \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi m\u00e1lnotkun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g hef lagt \u00e1herslu \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 okkur beri a\u00f0 s\u00fdna m\u00e1lnotkun annarra vir\u00f0ingu og umbur\u00f0arlyndi og taka tilbrig\u00f0um \u00ed m\u00e1li fagnandi \u2013 e\u00f0a a.m.k. s\u00e6tta okkur vi\u00f0 \u00feau. \u00dea\u00f0 er einl\u00e6g sannf\u00e6ring m\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 ein meginforsenda \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00edslenska lifi \u00e1fram hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnum okkar og barnab\u00f6rnum. En umbur\u00f0arlyndi\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3 takm\u00f6rk. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2838","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2838","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2838"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2838\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2844,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2838\/revisions\/2844"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2838"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2838"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2838"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}