{"id":3590,"date":"2021-02-06T18:00:36","date_gmt":"2021-02-06T18:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/?p=3590"},"modified":"2021-02-08T10:49:18","modified_gmt":"2021-02-08T10:49:18","slug":"born-og-samtol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/2021\/02\/06\/born-og-samtol\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00f6rn og samt\u00f6l"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Seinnipartinn \u00ed dag r\u00f6ltum vi\u00f0 hj\u00f3nin ni\u00f0ur \u00ed b\u00e6 og litum inn \u00e1 lists\u00fdningu. \u00c1 heimlei\u00f0inni stungum vi\u00f0 okkur inn \u00e1 veitingah\u00fas og fengum okkur l\u00e9ttv\u00ednsglas. \u00c1 n\u00e6sta bor\u00f0i voru hj\u00f3n me\u00f0 barn, \u00e1 a\u00f0 giska \u00feriggja e\u00f0a fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra gamalt. Allan t\u00edmann sem vi\u00f0 s\u00e1tum \u00fearna og s\u00f6tru\u00f0um \u00far gl\u00f6sunum okkar var barni\u00f0 me\u00f0 s\u00edma \u00ed h\u00f6ndunum og horf\u00f0i sem d\u00e1leitt \u00e1 skj\u00e1inn \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 segja or\u00f0 \u2013 og \u00e9g var\u00f0 ekki heldur var vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 foreldrarnir yrtu \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0.a<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g get alveg skili\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem fer me\u00f0 ung b\u00f6rn \u00fat \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0 \u00e1 annat\u00edma, \u00fereytt a\u00f0 loknum vinnudegi, og r\u00e9ttir b\u00f6rnunum s\u00edma til a\u00f0 hafa fri\u00f0 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 verslar. En \u00f6\u00f0ru m\u00e1li gegnir ef ma\u00f0ur fer \u00e1 kaffih\u00fas s\u00ed\u00f0degis \u00e1 laugardegi. \u00de\u00e1 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 slappa af og einmitt upplagt a\u00f0 nota t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri\u00f0 til a\u00f0 spjalla vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 ung b\u00f6rn kunni yfirleitt a\u00f0 meta a\u00f0 \u00feeim s\u00e9 s\u00fdndur \u00e1hugi og s\u00e9u til \u00ed a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 foreldra s\u00edna.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g er<strong> ekki<\/strong>\u00a0a\u00f0 amast vi\u00f0 s\u00edmanotkun ungra barna \u00fat af fyrir sig. \u00dea\u00f0 eru skiptar sko\u00f0anir um hana og \u00e1hrif hennar og \u00e9g \u00e6tla ekki a\u00f0 blanda m\u00e9r \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 umr\u00e6\u00f0u a\u00f0 svo st\u00f6ddu. \u00c9g er <strong>ekki<\/strong>\u00a0a\u00f0 halda \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 allt hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 miklu betra \u00e1\u00f0ur og foreldrar s\u00edfellt veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn s\u00edn. \u00dea\u00f0 var au\u00f0vita\u00f0 upp og ofan eins og n\u00fa. \u00c9g er <strong>eing\u00f6ngu<\/strong>\u00a0a\u00f0 minna \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi samtalsins fyrir m\u00e1lt\u00f6ku og m\u00e1l\u00feroska \u2013 a\u00f0 tala\u00f0 s\u00e9 vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn og \u00feeim gefinn kostur \u00e1 a\u00f0 hlusta \u00e1 samt\u00f6l og taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00feeim.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ddmsar ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 ekkert skiptir meira m\u00e1li fyrir m\u00e1l\u00feroska barna en samt\u00f6l vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk. Jafnframt er alltaf a\u00f0 koma betur og betur \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ur m\u00e1l\u00feroski skiptir m\u00e1li fyrir allan annan \u00feroska \u2013 f\u00e9lags\u00feroska, tilfinningagreind, og jafnvel verkgreind. \u00deess vegna er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 foreldrar noti allan \u00feann t\u00edma sem m\u00f6gulegt er til a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00edn og freistist ekki til a\u00f0 nota s\u00edma e\u00f0a t\u00f6lvu til a\u00f0 kaupa s\u00e9r fri\u00f0 nema \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 alveg nau\u00f0synlegt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Seinnipartinn \u00ed dag r\u00f6ltum vi\u00f0 hj\u00f3nin ni\u00f0ur \u00ed b\u00e6 og litum inn \u00e1 lists\u00fdningu. \u00c1 heimlei\u00f0inni stungum vi\u00f0 okkur inn \u00e1 veitingah\u00fas og fengum okkur l\u00e9ttv\u00ednsglas. \u00c1 n\u00e6sta bor\u00f0i voru hj\u00f3n me\u00f0 barn, \u00e1 a\u00f0 giska \u00feriggja e\u00f0a fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra gamalt. Allan t\u00edmann sem vi\u00f0 s\u00e1tum \u00fearna og s\u00f6tru\u00f0um \u00far gl\u00f6sunum okkar var barni\u00f0 me\u00f0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3590","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3590"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3592,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3590\/revisions\/3592"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3590"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3590"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3590"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}