{"id":4257,"date":"2022-04-16T17:15:52","date_gmt":"2022-04-16T17:15:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/?p=4257"},"modified":"2022-04-17T17:16:21","modified_gmt":"2022-04-17T17:16:21","slug":"maltilfinning-okkar-og-hinna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/2022\/04\/16\/maltilfinning-okkar-og-hinna\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1ltilfinning okkar og hinna"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cd umr\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 Facebook um n\u00fd\u00fatkomna b\u00f3k m\u00edna, <em>Alls konar \u00edslenska<\/em>, hef \u00e9g s\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 sumum bl\u00f6skrar a\u00f0 \u00e9g skuli halda \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 ekkert s\u00e9 athugavert vi\u00f0 \u00fdmis tilbrig\u00f0i sem yfirleitt hafa veri\u00f0 k\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u201em\u00e1lvillur\u201c. A\u00f0 v\u00edsu s\u00fdnist m\u00e9r a\u00f0 m\u00f6rg \u00feeirra sem tj\u00e1 sig um \u00feetta hafi ekki lesi\u00f0 b\u00f3kina heldur byggi sko\u00f0un s\u00edna \u00e1 fr\u00e9ttum af henni, ekki s\u00edst innslagi \u00ed \u201e\u00cdsland \u00ed dag\u201c \u00e1 <em>St\u00f6\u00f0 2<\/em> fyrir nokkrum d\u00f6gum. \u00dea\u00f0 er alveg r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 \u00e9g segi \u00ed b\u00f3kinni a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ulaust s\u00e9 til a\u00f0 amast vi\u00f0 \u00fdmsum tilbrig\u00f0um \u00ed m\u00e1li. En \u00e9g sl\u00e6 \u00fev\u00ed ekki fram sk\u00fdringalaust, heldur leitast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra s\u00f6gu og \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur tilbrig\u00f0anna til a\u00f0 lesendur geti sj\u00e1lfir lagt mat \u00e1 \u00feau og teki\u00f0 afst\u00f6\u00f0u til \u00feeirra.<\/p>\n<p>Sum \u00feeirra sem tj\u00e1 sig um \u00feetta segja a\u00f0 tilbrig\u00f0i eins og <em>m\u00e9r langar<\/em>, <em>\u00e9g vill<\/em>, <em>\u00fea\u00f0 var bari\u00f0 mig<\/em> o.s.frv. s\u00e6ri m\u00e1lkennd s\u00edna og stingi sig \u00ed eyrun. \u00c9g efast ekkert um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 r\u00e9tt og \u00feetta er ekkert \u00f3e\u00f0lilegt \u2013 vi\u00f0 kippumst vi\u00f0 \u00feegar broti\u00f0 er gegn \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem vi\u00f0 \u00f3lumst upp vi\u00f0, s\u00e9rstaklega ef hamra\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed sk\u00f3lum og annars sta\u00f0ar a\u00f0 \u00f6nnur tilbrig\u00f0i s\u00e9u r\u00f6ng. Hins vegar er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga a\u00f0 m\u00e1lkennd, e\u00f0a m\u00e1ltilfinning, er ekki eitthva\u00f0 sem er sameiginlegt \u00f6llu m\u00e1lsamf\u00e9laginu. H\u00fan er einstaklingsbundin. Vi\u00f0 byggjum upp m\u00e1lkennd okkar, hvert og eitt, \u00fat fr\u00e1 m\u00e1linu sem vi\u00f0 heyrum \u00ed kringum okkur \u00e1 m\u00e1lt\u00f6kuskei\u00f0i, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0i ekki endilega a\u00f0 m\u00e1l okkar ver\u00f0i n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og m\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00ed umhverfinu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deetta \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem notar umr\u00e6dd tilbrig\u00f0i er bara a\u00f0 tala \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 <strong>s\u00edna<\/strong> m\u00e1lkennd \u2013 \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1lkennd sem \u00fea\u00f0 hefur byggt upp \u00e1 m\u00e1lt\u00f6kuskei\u00f0i. Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ford\u00e6ma \u00feessi tilbrig\u00f0i og telja \u00feau r\u00f6ng erum vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 <strong>okkar <\/strong>innbygg\u00f0a m\u00e1lkennd \u2013 m\u00e1ltilfinning okkar \u2013 s\u00e9 betri og r\u00e9ttari og \u00e6\u00f0ri en m\u00e1ltilfinning \u00feeirra sem nota \u00feessi tilbrig\u00f0i. Erum vi\u00f0 virkilega \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0u til \u00feess? Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 a\u00f0 setja sig \u00e1 h\u00e1an hest? Eru tilfinningar, hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er m\u00e1ltilfinning e\u00f0a a\u00f0rar tilfinningar, ekki \u00feess e\u00f0lis a\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00e1 ekkert me\u00f0 a\u00f0 telja \u00fe\u00e6r rangar? Eigum vi\u00f0 ekki a\u00f0 s\u00fdna tilfinningum annarra vir\u00f0ingu \u2013 l\u00edka m\u00e1ltilfinningu \u00feeirra?<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1ltilfinningin sem vi\u00f0 byggjum okkur upp \u00e1 m\u00e1lt\u00f6kuskei\u00f0i er hluti af okkur sj\u00e1lfum, sj\u00e1lfsmynd okkar. A\u00f0 mismuna f\u00f3lki eftir m\u00e1ltilfinningu er samb\u00e6rilegt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 mismuna \u00fev\u00ed eftir h\u00fa\u00f0lit, kynhneig\u00f0, kynvitund, tr\u00faarbr\u00f6g\u00f0um, stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lasko\u00f0unum o.s.frv., sem flestum finnst \u00f3t\u00e6kt. \u00dea\u00f0 t\u00e1knar ekki a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 fella okkur vi\u00f0 m\u00e1l sem fellur ekki a\u00f0 m\u00e1ltilfinningu okkar \u2013 frekar en vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 fella okkur vi\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lasko\u00f0anir annarra, tr\u00faarbr\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00feeirra o.s.frv. En vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 \u00e1tta okkur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00e1 jafnmikinn r\u00e9tt \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 s\u00edna m\u00e1ltilfinningu og vi\u00f0 \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 okkar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cd umr\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 Facebook um n\u00fd\u00fatkomna b\u00f3k m\u00edna, Alls konar \u00edslenska, hef \u00e9g s\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 sumum bl\u00f6skrar a\u00f0 \u00e9g skuli halda \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 ekkert s\u00e9 athugavert vi\u00f0 \u00fdmis tilbrig\u00f0i sem yfirleitt hafa veri\u00f0 k\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u201em\u00e1lvillur\u201c. A\u00f0 v\u00edsu s\u00fdnist m\u00e9r a\u00f0 m\u00f6rg \u00feeirra sem tj\u00e1 sig um \u00feetta hafi ekki lesi\u00f0 b\u00f3kina heldur byggi sko\u00f0un [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4257","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4257"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4257\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4258,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4257\/revisions\/4258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}