\u00c1 fyrstu sex \u00e6vi\u00e1runum e\u00f0a svo tileinkum vi\u00f0 okkur flestar helstu reglur m\u00f3\u00f0urm\u00e1ls okkar. M\u00e1lt\u00f6kunni er \u00fe\u00f3 s\u00ed\u00f0ur en svo loki\u00f0 \u2013 vi\u00f0 h\u00f6ldum \u00e1fram a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra undantekningar fr\u00e1 meginreglum, \u00fdmsar reglur sem sjaldan reynir \u00e1, og alls konar atri\u00f0i sem engum reglum ver\u00f0ur yfir komi\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0ast en ekki s\u00edst aukum vi\u00f0 or\u00f0afor\u00f0a okkar sm\u00e1tt og sm\u00e1tt \u2013 ekki bara til loka m\u00e1lt\u00f6kuskei\u00f0sins um kyn\u00feroskaaldur, heldur alla \u00e6vi. \u00deessi tileinkun fer a\u00f0 mestu fram \u00f3me\u00f0vita\u00f0 og \u00e1reynslulaust \u2013 vi\u00f0 l\u00e6rum ekki reglur m\u00e1lsins og undantekningar fr\u00e1 \u00feeim af b\u00f3kum, heldur \u00e1ttum okkur \u00e1 \u00feeim sj\u00e1lf \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem vi\u00f0 heyrum \u00ed kringum okkur. Stundum er a\u00f0 v\u00edsu reynt a\u00f0 berja inn \u00ed okkur reglur sem ganga \u00fevert \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r \u00e1lyktanir sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum dregi\u00f0 af m\u00e1linu \u00ed umhverfi okkar, en \u00e1rangurinn af \u00fev\u00ed er misjafn eins og alkunna er.<\/p>\n
En til a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 getum dregi\u00f0 \u00f6ruggar \u00e1lyktanir af m\u00e1linu \u00ed umhverfi okkar \u00fearf a\u00f0 vera n\u00f3g af \u00fev\u00ed. \u00deetta skiptir helst m\u00e1li \u00feegar um er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a reglur me\u00f0 takmarka\u00f0 gildissvi\u00f0 og reglur um \u00e1hrif or\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00f6nnur \u2013 sjaldg\u00e6f beygingarmynstur, sjaldg\u00e6far e\u00f0a fl\u00f3knar setningager\u00f0ir o.fl. Sem d\u00e6mi m\u00e1 taka tv\u00f6 atri\u00f0i sem eru nokku\u00f0 \u00e1 reiki \u00ed m\u00e1linu \u2013 afturbeygingu og vi\u00f0tengingarh\u00e1tt. \u00deessi atri\u00f0i eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sameiginlegt a\u00f0 \u00feau var\u00f0a tengsl milli or\u00f0a innan setningar, \u00feannig a\u00f0 or\u00f0 \u00e1 einum sta\u00f0 \u00ed setningu r\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a or\u00f0 e\u00f0a hva\u00f0a beygingarmynd er notu\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum sta\u00f0 \u00ed setningunni, jafnvel t\u00f6luvert langt fr\u00e1. \u00deetta er fjarri \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera einfalt, atri\u00f0in sem hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 val or\u00f0s e\u00f0a beygingarmyndar eru m\u00f6rg og hugsanlegt samspil \u00feeirra margv\u00edslegt.<\/p>\n
Til a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00feessu og koma s\u00e9r upp traustum reglum \u00feurfa b\u00f6rnin \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 heyra miki\u00f0 af d\u00e6mum \u00fear sem allir m\u00f6guleikar koma fram. \u00dea\u00f0 gerist ekki nema miki\u00f0 s\u00e9 tala\u00f0 vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin. \u00de\u00e1 duga ekki stutt og einf\u00f6ld samt\u00f6l um f\u00e1breytt efni me\u00f0 stuttum setningum og takm\u00f6rku\u00f0um or\u00f0afor\u00f0a, \u00fe\u00f3tt sl\u00edk samt\u00f6l s\u00e9u vitanlega sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0 og mikilv\u00e6g. En \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf l\u00edka lengri og innhaldsr\u00edkari samt\u00f6l um fj\u00f6lbreytt efni \u2013 samt\u00f6l til a\u00f0 fr\u00e6\u00f0a b\u00f6rnin um eitt og anna\u00f0, segja \u00feeim s\u00f6gur o.fl. Til vi\u00f0b\u00f3tar \u00fearf au\u00f0vita\u00f0 a\u00f0 lesa fyrir b\u00f6rnin, og hvetja \u00feau til a\u00f0 lesa sj\u00e1lf \u00feegar \u00feau eru or\u00f0in l\u00e6s. \u00cd ritu\u00f0u m\u00e1li, jafnvel textum sem eru \u00e6tla\u00f0ir b\u00f6rnum, koma fyrir or\u00f0 og setningager\u00f0ir sem eru sjaldg\u00e6f \u00ed talm\u00e1li en nau\u00f0synleg fyrir b\u00f6rnin til a\u00f0 tileinka s\u00e9r m\u00e1lkerfi\u00f0 og m\u00e1lhef\u00f0ina.<\/p>\n
Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum ekkert a\u00f0 vera hissa \u00fe\u00f3tt notkun vi\u00f0tengingarh\u00e1ttar og afturbeygingar, og \u00fdmissa fleiri fl\u00f3kinna e\u00f0a sjaldg\u00e6fra atri\u00f0a, s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 reiki hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnum og unglingum, og jafnvel fullor\u00f0nu f\u00f3lki. \u00dea\u00f0 er e\u00f0lileg og \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6mileg aflei\u00f0ing af breyttu \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagi, minni b\u00f3klestri og minna e\u00f0a breyttu m\u00e1l\u00e1reiti. En vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0in eiga ekki og mega ekki vera \u00feau a\u00f0 hneykslast og tala unglingana og m\u00e1l \u00feeirra ni\u00f0ur. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur \u00fever\u00f6fug \u00e1hrif. \u00cd sta\u00f0inn \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 leita lei\u00f0a til a\u00f0 \u00f6rva og styrkja m\u00e1lumhverfi \u00feeirra, halda m\u00e1linu meira a\u00f0 \u00feeim \u2013 \u00e1 j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0an h\u00e1tt, me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nota \u00fea\u00f0 og f\u00e1 \u00feau til a\u00f0 nota \u00fea\u00f0, en ekki me\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9ttingum og umv\u00f6ndunum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c1 fyrstu sex \u00e6vi\u00e1runum e\u00f0a svo tileinkum vi\u00f0 okkur flestar helstu reglur m\u00f3\u00f0urm\u00e1ls okkar. M\u00e1lt\u00f6kunni er \u00fe\u00f3 s\u00ed\u00f0ur en svo loki\u00f0 \u2013 vi\u00f0 h\u00f6ldum \u00e1fram a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra undantekningar fr\u00e1 meginreglum, \u00fdmsar reglur sem sjaldan reynir \u00e1, og alls konar atri\u00f0i sem engum reglum ver\u00f0ur yfir komi\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0ast en ekki s\u00edst aukum vi\u00f0 or\u00f0afor\u00f0a okkar sm\u00e1tt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4339"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4340,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4339\/revisions\/4340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}