{"id":7312,"date":"2025-05-17T09:54:20","date_gmt":"2025-05-17T09:54:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/?p=7312"},"modified":"2025-05-20T09:55:55","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T09:55:55","slug":"sorgarferli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/2025\/05\/17\/sorgarferli\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorgarferli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fyrir t\u00f3lf \u00e1rum\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mbl.is\/frettir\/innlent\/2013\/01\/29\/einelti_og_hreint_og_klart_ofbeldi\/\" rel=\"\">l\u00fdsti<\/a>\u00a0J\u00f3n Gnarr, \u00fe\u00e1verandi borgarstj\u00f3ri \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, \u00fev\u00ed yfir a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i upplifa\u00f0\u00a0<em>einelti<\/em>\u00a0\u00e1 \u00edb\u00faafundi \u00ed Grafarvogi. \u00deessi notkun J\u00f3ns \u00e1 or\u00f0inu\u00a0<em>einelti<\/em>\u00a0var gagnr\u00fdnd me\u00f0 v\u00edsun \u00ed \u00fdmsar skilgreiningar \u00e1 or\u00f0inu \u2013 \u00ed \u201eL\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ior\u00f0asafni\u201c \u00ed\u00a0<em>\u00cd\u00f0or\u00f0abankanum\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/idordabanki.arnastofnun.is\/faersla\/895708\" rel=\"\">segir<\/a>\u00a0t.d.: \u201eS\u00edendurtekin heg\u00f0un sem almennt er til \u00feess fallin a\u00f0 valda vanl\u00ed\u00f0an hj\u00e1 \u00feeim sem fyrir henni ver\u00f0ur, svo sem a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far, m\u00f3\u00f0ga, s\u00e6ra e\u00f0a \u00f3gna vi\u00f0komandi e\u00f0a a\u00f0 valda honum \u00f3tta.\u201c S\u00e9ra Sigr\u00ed\u00f0ur Gu\u00f0marsd\u00f3ttir\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mbl.is\/smartland\/stars\/2013\/01\/30\/prestur_segir_jon_gnarr_misskilja_einelti\/\" rel=\"\">sag\u00f0i<\/a>: \u201eEitt helsta ein\u00adkenni einelt\u00adis er a\u00f0 \u00fear er r\u00e1\u00f0ist gegn ein\u00adstak\u00adlingi e\u00f0a h\u00f3pi og hann ger\u00f0ur vald\u00adlaus og \u00f3s\u00fdni\u00adleg\u00adur. [...] En \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00feegar vald\u00admikl\u00adir menn tala um einelti \u00e1 hend\u00adur s\u00e9r s\u00e9u \u00feeir a\u00f0 taka yfir or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u hinna vald\u00adlausu.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>\u00deetta rifja\u00f0ist upp fyrir m\u00e9r \u00ed morgun \u00feegar \u00e9g s\u00e1\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mbl.is\/frettir\/innlent\/2025\/05\/17\/sorgarferli_a_sudurnesjum\/\" rel=\"\">fyrirs\u00f6gnina<\/a>\u00a0\u201eSorgarferli \u00e1 Su\u00f0urnesjum\u201c \u00ed\u00a0<em>Morgunbla\u00f0inu\u00a0<\/em>og h\u00e9lt \u00ed fyrstu a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 vofeiflegt hef\u00f0i gerst, en \u00fe\u00e1 \u2013 og sem betur fer \u2013 reyndist fr\u00e9ttin sn\u00faast um skyndileg starfslok l\u00f6greglustj\u00f3rans \u00e1 Su\u00f0urnesjum. \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 eru all\u00adir slegn\u00adir yfir \u00feessu og segja m\u00e1 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e9um \u00ed sorg\u00adar\u00adferli\u201c er haft eftir l\u00f6greglufulltr\u00faa hj\u00e1 l\u00f6greglustj\u00f3raemb\u00e6ttinu. Or\u00f0i\u00f0\u00a0<em>sorgarferli\u00a0<\/em>er\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/islenskordabok.arnastofnun.is\/ord\/64346\" rel=\"\">sk\u00fdrt<\/a>\u00a0\u201at\u00edmabil sorgar eftir andl\u00e1t manns\u2018 \u00ed\u00a0<em>\u00cdslenskri n\u00fat\u00edmam\u00e1lsor\u00f0ab\u00f3k<\/em>\u00a0en sk\u00fdringin \u00ed\u00a0<em>\u00cdslenskri or\u00f0ab\u00f3k\u00a0<\/em>er \u00f6llu almennari og \u00edtarlegri: \u201eferli vi\u00f0brag\u00f0a eftir \u00e1fall, s.s. dau\u00f0a \u00e1stavinar, \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu geta komi\u00f0 lost, afneitun og s\u00e1rsauki en einnig \u00farvinnsla tilfinninga me\u00f0 skilningi og a\u00f0 lokum einhvers konar s\u00e1tt.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>N\u00fa skal \u00e9g s\u00edst draga \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skyndilegt brotthvarf l\u00f6greglustj\u00f3rans \u00far starfi hafi komi\u00f0 samstarfsf\u00f3lki hans \u00e1 \u00f3vart og \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 slegi\u00f0 og jafnvel \u00ed \u00e1falli. En a\u00f0 tala um\u00a0<em>sorgarferli\u00a0<\/em>\u00ed \u00fev\u00ed sambandi er \u00fat \u00far \u00f6llu korti, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1\u00a0<em>sorgarferli \u00e1 Su\u00f0urnesjum<\/em>\u00a0eins og \u00feetta n\u00e1i til alls almennings. Or\u00f0anotkun af \u00feessu tagi er \u00f3heppileg vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00fan dregur \u00far v\u00e6gi or\u00f0sins og gerir l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far \u00feeirri alv\u00f6ru og sorg sem um er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00ed raunverulegu sorgarferli. Sama gildir um ofnotkun or\u00f0sins\u00a0<em>einelti\u00a0<\/em>og \u00fdmissa annarra or\u00f0a sem tengjast framkomu f\u00f3lks. \u00deetta er vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt og vandme\u00f0fari\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 upplifun f\u00f3lks getur veri\u00f0 svo misj\u00f6fn, en munum samt a\u00f0 or\u00f0 geta sprungi\u00f0 og \u00fea\u00f0 getur v\u00f6kna\u00f0 \u00ed p\u00fa\u00f0rinu eins og Sigf\u00fas Da\u00f0ason\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ismus.is\/bragi\/ljod\/3674\" rel=\"\">sag\u00f0i<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fyrir t\u00f3lf \u00e1rum\u00a0l\u00fdsti\u00a0J\u00f3n Gnarr, \u00fe\u00e1verandi borgarstj\u00f3ri \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, \u00fev\u00ed yfir a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i upplifa\u00f0\u00a0einelti\u00a0\u00e1 \u00edb\u00faafundi \u00ed Grafarvogi. \u00deessi notkun J\u00f3ns \u00e1 or\u00f0inu\u00a0einelti\u00a0var gagnr\u00fdnd me\u00f0 v\u00edsun \u00ed \u00fdmsar skilgreiningar \u00e1 or\u00f0inu \u2013 \u00ed \u201eL\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ior\u00f0asafni\u201c \u00ed\u00a0\u00cd\u00f0or\u00f0abankanum\u00a0segir\u00a0t.d.: \u201eS\u00edendurtekin heg\u00f0un sem almennt er til \u00feess fallin a\u00f0 valda vanl\u00ed\u00f0an hj\u00e1 \u00feeim sem fyrir henni ver\u00f0ur, svo sem a\u00f0 gera [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7312","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7312"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7312\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7313,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7312\/revisions\/7313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7312"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7312"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}