{"id":8159,"date":"2026-05-19T09:33:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-19T09:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/?p=8159"},"modified":"2026-05-19T09:33:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-19T09:33:12","slug":"malfarsleg-tillitssemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/2026\/05\/19\/malfarsleg-tillitssemi\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1lfarsleg tillitssemi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cd g\u00e6r skrifa\u00f0i \u00e9g pistil um or\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00fakkula\u00f0ikleina <\/em>\u00fear sem \u00e9g sta\u00f0festi \u00fea\u00f0 sem haf\u00f0i komi\u00f0 fram \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feetta v\u00e6ri ekki n\u00fdtt or\u00f0 heldur hef\u00f0i t\u00ed\u00f0kast lengi \u00ed \u00f3formlegu m\u00e1li \u00e1kve\u00f0inna h\u00f3pa og v\u00e6ri alls ekki ras\u00edskt \u00ed e\u00f0li s\u00ednu. Hins vegar benti \u00e9g \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti m\u00e1li hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri nota\u00f0 og \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 nota \u00fea\u00f0 um f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 d\u00f6kka h\u00fa\u00f0. \u00deess vegna fannst m\u00e9r \u00feetta m\u00e1l tilefni til a\u00f0 \u00edtreka \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef oft sagt \u00e1\u00f0ur, a\u00f0 \u00e6tlun m\u00e6landa og t\u00falkun hlustenda \u00feurfa ekki a\u00f0 fara saman. Eins og \u00e9g sag\u00f0i hef \u00e9g enga tr\u00fa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Hildur Bj\u00f6rnsd\u00f3ttir hafi lagt ras\u00edska merkingu \u00ed or\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00fakkula\u00f0ikleina<\/em> \u2013 \u00feetta er or\u00f0 sem var nota\u00f0 \u00e1n umhugsunar \u00ed \u00f3undirb\u00fanu samtali og \u00fea\u00f0 getur vitanlega komi\u00f0 fyrir okkur \u00f6ll a\u00f0 nota \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi or\u00f0alag.<\/p>\n

En \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g telji ekki a\u00f0 \u00e6tlun m\u00e6landa \u00ed \u00feessu tilviki hafi veri\u00f0 ras\u00edsk er nau\u00f0synlegt og ekkert athugavert vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 a\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 er \u00f3heppilegt og \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er nota\u00f0 um f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 d\u00f6kka h\u00fa\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 b\u00fd\u00f0ur auglj\u00f3slega upp \u00e1 hugrenningatengsl vi\u00f0 h\u00fa\u00f0litinn, s\u00e9rstaklega hj\u00e1 \u00feeim fj\u00f6lm\u00f6rgu sem \u00feekkja or\u00f0i\u00f0 ekki fyrir. \u00ddmsar hli\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur m\u00e1 nefna \u2013 \u00e9g s\u00e1 t.d. konu nefna<\/a> \u00e1 Facebook a\u00f0 h\u00fan g\u00e6ti kalla\u00f0 son sinn apak\u00f6tt<\/em> ef hann v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 klifra \u00ed tr\u00e9, en \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri alveg \u00fatiloka\u00f0 a\u00f0 nota or\u00f0i\u00f0 um br\u00fanan bekkjarbr\u00f3\u00f0ur hans. \u00dev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur kom \u00ed lj\u00f3s \u2013 sem kom svo sem ekki alveg \u00e1 \u00f3vart \u2013 a\u00f0 m\u00f6rg \u00feeirra sem skrifu\u00f0u athugasemdir vi\u00f0 pistilinn \u00ed \u201eM\u00e1lspjalli\u201c skildu \u00feetta ekki, e\u00f0a vildu ekki skilja \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u201e\u00c9g s\u00e1 aldrei neitt ras\u00edskt vi\u00f0 \u00feetta\u201c voru d\u00e6miger\u00f0 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 enda er \u00e9g nokku\u00f0 viss um a\u00f0 \u00feau sem ger\u00f0u l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 um \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi m\u00e1lnotkun v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a eru \u00f6ll hv\u00edt \u00e1 h\u00f6rund og m\u00f6rg \u00feeirra sem ekki eru \u00ed \u00feeim h\u00f3pum sem ver\u00f0a fyrir sl\u00edkri m\u00e1lnotkun vir\u00f0ast eiga erfitt me\u00f0 \u2013 e\u00f0a skorta vilja til \u2013 a\u00f0 setja sig \u00ed spor ja\u00f0arsettra. \u00cd athugasemdum var sagt a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 krefjast \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeim sem v\u00e6ru d\u00f6kk \u00e1 h\u00f6rund v\u00e6ri s\u00fdnd meiri tillitssemi en \u00f6\u00f0rum fyrst ekki m\u00e6tti nota tiltekin or\u00f0 um \u00feau. En \u00fea\u00f0 er misskilningur \u2013 \u00feetta sn\u00fdst ekki um a\u00f0 s\u00fdna meiri <\/strong>tillitssemi en \u00f6\u00f0rum, heldur einfaldlega um a\u00f0 s\u00fdna s\u00f6mu<\/strong> tillitssemi og \u00f6\u00f0rum. Notkun tiltekins or\u00f0s um tilteki\u00f0 f\u00f3lk getur nefnilega veri\u00f0 tillitslaus \u00fe\u00f3tt notkun \u00feess um anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 saklaus.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er einn yfirl\u00fdstur tilgangur<\/a> h\u00f3psins \u201eM\u00e1lspjall\u201c a\u00f0 vera vettvangur ja\u00f0arsetts f\u00f3lks og standa \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed m\u00e1lfarslegum efnum. \u00dea\u00f0 er lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 st\u00f3rir h\u00f3par \u00ed \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9laginu \u2013 ekki s\u00edst hinsegin f\u00f3lk og f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 anna\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0urm\u00e1l en \u00edslensku e\u00f0a annan h\u00fa\u00f0lit en hv\u00edtan \u2013 eiga undir h\u00f6gg a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja \u00ed m\u00e1lfarslegum efnum og eru ja\u00f0arsettir, \u00fdmist af tungum\u00e1linu sj\u00e1lfu e\u00f0a notendum \u00feess. M\u00e9r finnst mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00feessir h\u00f3par hafi r\u00f6dd og m\u00e1lfar \u00feeirra hafi vettvang og hef reynt a\u00f0 sk\u00fdra m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 \u00feeirra og tala m\u00e1li \u00feeirra eftir m\u00e6tti \u2013 og held \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1fram. \u00deau sem setja sig upp \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tillit s\u00e9 teki\u00f0 til \u00feessara h\u00f3pa eiga ekkert erindi \u00ed h\u00f3pinn \u201eM\u00e1lspjall\u201c og \u00e9g legg \u00fev\u00ed til a\u00f0 \u00feau gangi \u00far honum og\/e\u00f0a segi upp \u00e1skrift a\u00f0 pistlum m\u00ednum \u00e1 Substack.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00cd g\u00e6r skrifa\u00f0i \u00e9g pistil um or\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00fakkula\u00f0ikleina \u00fear sem \u00e9g sta\u00f0festi \u00fea\u00f0 sem haf\u00f0i komi\u00f0 fram \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feetta v\u00e6ri ekki n\u00fdtt or\u00f0 heldur hef\u00f0i t\u00ed\u00f0kast lengi \u00ed \u00f3formlegu m\u00e1li \u00e1kve\u00f0inna h\u00f3pa og v\u00e6ri alls ekki ras\u00edskt \u00ed e\u00f0li s\u00ednu. Hins vegar benti \u00e9g \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti m\u00e1li hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri nota\u00f0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[158635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-malfar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/141"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8159"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8159\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8160,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8159\/revisions\/8160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/uni.hi.is\/eirikur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}